Marriage is a marathon and not a race. So don’t judge or be tohard on yourself within the first couple of years. FIrst get some years under your belt. Because the first two, to three years, are they all fine and dandy. But when you start getting up in their four, five, six years, it’s going to get tough. But don’t give up, you will go through things in your relationship. As time progressed more obstacles may show up in your life.